I responded to the associate with the real "message" this person is really saying and that is “They don’t know how to do it”, not that it can’t be done. And further they are implying that you are too stupid to figure out how it can be done, so you shouldn't even try.
Many new people starting a business will listen to the “expert” tell them they CAN’T do something and believe their ego lined prophesies.
Last week I had a past client of one of my older courses call me and tell me that they had bought my course 3 years ago and was told by a mortgage broker that they wouldn't be successful using the technique due to the easy market conditions at that time. The client believed them and didn’t even try.
They told me that since the market has now changed, that it seemed that NOW would be a good time to use that course. I had to break the news that… “No, in fact, it worked great back then but now was not the time to use it. Now we are using a different method.” Once I explained the method, they replied “But this new method sounds like it should have worked back then, not now.” I said, “That’s because you are still running that mortgage broker’s logic and it was wrong. You believed the mortgage broker who simply couldn’t do something and thought you were too stupid to figure out how it could be done.” Thousands of deals were completed by others over those same years; while you lost out because of unsound advice from a supposed expert.
Do you think this expert will pay you the profits you lost on their unsound advice? No, after all… it was your decision that cost you, not their opinion.
If a method doesn’t work in the market place, I won’t sell it or support it. And what I do sell and support is what IS working today.
Listening to others who tell you “You can’t do that”, is the fastest way to the poor house where 95% of the supposed experts are hanging out today.
You can be particularly vulnerable to these naysayers when you are having problems or portray a lack of confidence. When they sense your weakness, their ego’s go into overdrive and beat you into submission with their own false assertions. These experts are usually failing in business themselves because they listen to supposed experts themselves and have given up their own dream.
There were a lot of experts who didn’t think a Black man could win a Caucus for President, after all, it had never happened before... and even more that didn't think B Obama could be elected as president. Barack Obama then took the Oath of Office. Don't let experts steal your dream... Make your own decisions and your own future. When you hear someone telling you that you can't do it... think "Yes We Can".
